Monday, June 30, 2008

Success

“Success” has many definitions. What does “success” mean to you?


· Great achievements in your life.

· A favourable outcome of your action.

· It’s about drive and determination, and also commitment.

· Manage to buy an expensive, elegant car.

· After getting a dream job in your life.

· Successfully score the most difficult exam paper.

· Manage to overcome the greatest problem of all.

· After you become a millionaire.

· Successfully fixing your laptop.

· Winning a running competition.

· Winning a heart of a handsome guy/pretty girl.

· Passing the driving test.

· Getting very good grades.

· Business becomes prosperous.

· Become a professor.

· Leading a happy life you want.

· Successfully save a house from wild fire.

· Having a big dream house.

· And many more……


How about you? Think one now!

Welcome To Wherever You Are


I love this song… It’s full of advices and life principles… Enjoy it!!!

Artist : Bon Jovi

Album : Have A Nice Day

Title : Welcome To Wherever You Are


Maybe we're all different
But we're still the same
We all got the blood of Eden running through our veins
I know sometimes it's hard for you to see
You're caught between just who you are and who you want to be


If you feel alone and lost and need a friend
Remember every new beginning is some beginning's end


Welcome to wherever you are
This is your life; you made it this far

Welcome, you got to believe
That right here, right now you're exactly where you're supposed to be
Welcome to wherever you are


When everybody's in and you're left out
And you feel you're drowning in the shadow of a doubt
Everyone's a miracle in their own way
Just listen to yourself, not what other people say


When it seems you're lost, alone and feelin' down
Remember, everybody's different; just take a look around


Welcome to wherever you are
This is your life; you made it this far
Welcome, you got to believe
Right here, right now you're exactly where you're supposed to be
Be who you want to be, be who you are
Everyone's a hero, everyone's a star


When you want to give up and your heart's about to break
Remember that you're perfect
; God makes no mistakes


Welcome to wherever you are
This is your life, you made it this far
Welcome, you got to believe
Right here, right now you're exactly where you're supposed to be
Welcome to wherever you are
This is your life, you made it this far
(I say welcome) Welcome to wherever you are

Sunday, June 29, 2008

20 Famous Quotes of Success








1. Abraham Lincoln (the 16th president of US):

Always bear in mind that your own resolution to succeed is more important than any other one thing.

2. Albert Einstein (American physicist and Nobel laureate):

Try not to become a man of success but rather try to become a man of value.

3. Anna Pavlova(Russian ballerina):

To follow without halt, one aim; there is the secret of success. And success? What is it? I do not find it in the applause of the theater; it lies rather in the satisfaction of accomplishment.

4. Benjamin Franklin (American philosopher, scientist, painter, author and diplomat):

There are no gains without pains.

5. Emily Dickinson (American poet and literature author):

Success is counted sweetest

By those who ne'er succeed.

To comprehend a nectar

Requires sorest need.

6. Frank Lloyd Wright (American architect):

The thing always happens that you really believe in; and the belief in a thing makes it happen.

7. Franklin D. Roosevelt (the 32nd president of US):

It is common sense to take a method and try it. If it fails, admit it frankly and try another. But above all, try something.

8. George Washington Carver (American educator and innovator in agricultural science):

How far you go in life depends on your being tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, sympathetic with the striving and tolerant of the weak and strong. Because someday in life you will have been all of these.

9. Havelock Ellis (British psychologist and author):

It is on our failures that we base a new and different and better success.

10. Helen Keller (American author and lecturer):

I long to accomplish a great and noble tasks, but it is my chief duty to accomplish humble tasks as though they were great and noble. The world is moved along, not only by the mighty shoves of its heroes, but also by the aggregate of the tiny pushes of each honest worker.

11. Henry David Thoreau (American writer, philosopher and naturalist):

The greatest compliment that was ever paid me was when one asked me what I thought, and attended to my answer.

12. Henry Ford (American industrialist):

If you think you can, you can. And if you think you can't, you're right.

13. Oliver Wendell Holmes (American writer and physician):

Greatness is not in where we stand, but in what direction we are moving. We must sail sometimes with the wind and sometimes against it -- but sail we must and not drift, nor lie at anchor.

14. Pablo Picasso (Spanish painter):

My mother said to me, "If you become a soldier, you'll be a general; if you become a monk, you'll end up as the Pope." Instead, I became a painter and wound up as Picasso.

15. Pearl S. Buck (American novelist):

The secret of joy in work is contained in one word - excellence. To know how to do something well is to enjoy it.

16. Ralph Waldo Emerson (American essayist and poet):

Self-trust is the first secret of success.

17. Robert F. Kennedy (US political leader and legislator):

Only those who dare to fail greatly can ever achieve greatly.

18. Theodore Roosevelt (the 26th president of US):

It is not the critic who counts, not the man who points out how the strong man stumbled, or where the doer of deeds could have done better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood, who strives valiantly, who errs and comes short again and again, who knows the great enthusiasms, the great devotions, and spends himself in a worthy cause, who at best knows achievement and who at the worst if he fails at least fails while daring greatly so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who know neither victory nor defeat.

19. Thomas Alva Edison (American inventor):

Many of life's failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.

20. Vince Lombardi (football coach):

Dictionary is the only place that success comes before work. Hard work is the price we must pay for success. I think you can accomplish anything if you're willing to pay the price.

The Missing Factor

A young guy, who worked as a fish seller, was going from village to village to sell the fishes. The fishes he sold were fresh and most of the people loved to buy from him. He had a dream: to become the richest man in his town.


One day, he saw a couple opened a sundry shop and their business was a great success. So, he left his job as a fish seller. He switched to open a shop and become a shopkeeper. But the business didn’t really take off.


And now he heard the market was hot and many people became millionaires. So, he read books and magazines to seek for the stock tips. After buying and selling stocks, the profit was not meant for him.


When he watched The Apprentice hosted by Donald Trump, he wondered how Donald Trump could become a billionaire. After he read magazines, books and other sources, the real success of Trump was through real estate business. So, he started to refer and examine how to invest in real estate business. But his wild dream never came true. The results are the same. What is the missing factor in that guy who desired to get what he wants?

An Effective Manager


Have you read a self-help book called The One Minute Manager before this? It tells a story of a bright young man looking for an effective manager and a great manager reveals him 3 secrets to productive and efficient managing, and leading skills. The man is a venerable leader that is highly spoken of by his employees, his 3 secrets being the essential elements to his success.


The first secret is One Minute Goals. This involves a meeting of the manager and the employee where goals are agreed on, written down in a brief statement, and occasionally reviewed to ensure that productivity is occurring. This whole process takes a "minute", which truly means it is a quick meeting, however it is not limited to just sixty seconds. The purpose of one minute goal setting is to confirm that responsibilities of each working is understood, understanding that confusion leads to inefficiency and discouragement.


The second secret is One Minute Praisings. This involves being open with people about their performance. When you catch someone doing something right, a goal of the one minute manager, you praise them immediately, telling them specifically what they did correctly. Pause to allow them to "feel" how good you feel regarding their importance to the organization, and finish by shaking hands.


The third secret is One Minute Reprimand. Being honest with those around you involves reprimanding when a wrong has occurred. The first step is to reprimand immediately and specifically. This is the same as the second secret, and it holds an important aspect of the first secret: it enables an understanding of responsibilities and how to complete them correctly. Following the reprimand, shake hands and remind the person that he or she is important and it was simply their performance that you did not like. The one minute reprimand consists of the reprimand and the reassurance, both being equally important. If you leave the latter out, you will not be liked by those around you and they will attribute mistakes to them being worth less, which is far from the truth.

Saturday, June 28, 2008

Sound Strategies For Internet Marketing

:: Criteria You Needed to Start The Internet / Home Extra Income Opportunity ::

+ Basics knowledge on computer and internet.
+ you must be interested in learning so that you can succeed.
+ You'll get a bonus for attracting people / home business.
+ To make your business more successful, you will need to be creative and a hardworker.
+ Importantly, you must provide customers good products and service so that they come for more in future which then will increase your business day by day.
+ You must carry out your business legally, this means you must sell genuine products and promoting your products.
+ Always think positive and be open minded to accept the challenges and consequences around you.


:: Example on Internet / Home Extra Income Opportunity ::

· Sales Product (Internet Trading / multi level marketing)
+ Prepaid card for handphone.
+ health care products such as supplement, weight loss, men and women personal product.
+ ebooks (internet business opportunity skills,
+ software such as antivirus / antispamming program, keywords / link analysis program and many more.

· Service
+ Webmaster (making websites for other people)
+ advertising agency (help people to promote their website on the net. Example : Google Adwords & Google Adsense)



:: How to Make Your Extra Income Opportunity a Success? (Important Fact) ::

+ Find product or service that asks for high quality.
+ Find product or service that's less challenging to make it easier.


:: Tips to Make People Trust Your Internet / Home Extra Income Opportunity. ::

+ Include your contact information
+ Use sensible and trustworthy words, be honest with customers to make your prospect more effective so that the customers will be confident with you
+ don't force or cheat on costumer. You will be blacklisted and you will lost your costumer this way and trust by people

The Road Not Taken

Allow me to show you below a poem called The Road Not Taken by Robert Frost:

Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,

And sorry I could not travel both

And be one traveler, long I stood

And looked down one as far as I could

To where it bent in the undergrowth;


Then took the other, as just as fair,

And having perhaps the better claim,

Because it was grassy and wanted wear;

Though as for that the passing there

Had worn them really about the same,


And both that morning equally lay

In leaves no step had trodden black.

Oh, I kept the first for another day!

Yet knowing how many leads on to way

I doubted if I should ever come back.


I shall be telling this with a sigh

Somewhere ages and ages hence:

Two roads diverged in a wood, and I –

I took the one less traveled by,

And that has made all the difference.


Think for a moment, if you were that traveler who has to choose a path out of two to go, which one will you choose? What is in your mind when you come to this situation? Or would you like your life to determine where you want to be?

Famous Last Words

Don’t go where the path may lead

Go where there is no path at all

And leave a clean, clear trail


You will never grow high than yourself

Unless you are willing to go beyond

That which you have already mastered


A man doesn’t come to almshouse or jail

By the tyranny of fate and circumstances

But by the pathway of groveling thoughts


Most people don’t aim high and miss

They just aim too low and hit

But be clear of what you want


Courage is not the absence of fear

But an ability to feel fright

And do it anyway without doubt


Power of maintaining winning perspective

Give you the strength for forward pushes

Despite momentary or long-term setbacks


Unforeseen power and hidden chances

Will only arise when you spend time

Wisely and mostly with right people

Mr. Honda Malaysia, Boon Siew- Epitome of Success



Do you have a motorcycle at home? Which model is it? If your motorcycle is EX5 Honda, noticed that the sticker on the petrol tank below the seat written ‘BOON SIEW HONDA’. Yes, Tan Sri Dato’ Loh Boon Siew is the founder of Boon Siew Honda motorcycle in Malaysia. He’s dubbed the second Mr. Honda in Malaysia after the first Mr. Honda, Mr. Soichiro Honda.


Born in Hui An, China, he made his living by collecting and gathering pig dung. He came to Penang, Malaysia from China at the age of twelve with his friends. Upon his arrival, his first job is becoming an apprentice in a mechanic’s workshop. He was not paid until the basic mechanical skills are acquired. Then, he was paid three dollars monthly. He also had to summon all his endurance to tolerate with the frequent whacks by his sifu if he did something wrong. He also made his substantial income by washing buses at night.


Boon Siew planned to start a bus business at the age of eighteen. About eleven buses worth two thousand were brought by him at 1933. Using his mechanical skills, he modified and reconditioned all the buses. Then, he sold all of them for twelve thousand dollars. He used this sum of money to buy another buses and sold them. Unfortunately, the Japanese soldiers confiscated all his money during World War II.


But he persevered and never gave up hope. After the war ended, Boon Siew started his own business again. He sold motorcycle accessories and bicycles. Later, he spread his business to buses and used cars.


In 1958, Boon Siew noticed an opportunity that will change his whole life forever. While on vacation in Japan, he saw most of Japanese people rode Honda Super Cub motorcycles. The popularity of Honda motorcycles in Japan was so amazing. He believed that the market for such low-cost motorcycles will become hot in Malaysia.


So, without wasting time, he took necessary actions to make it a reality. He took his quick action by arranging a meeting with Mr. Soichiro Honda, the founder of Japanese Honda Motor Co Ltd. He convinced Mr. Honda to establish a subsidiary in Malaysia. And finally, his efforts were paid off and confidence surged within Mr. Honda.


The first Honda showroom was set up near to his house. And he was appointed the only Honda motorcycle distributor in Malaysia. A few years later, he developed a factory in Penang and Honda motorcycles imported from Japan was renamed Boon Siew Honda. Now, it becomes one of the most best-selling motorcycles in Malaysia due to its low-cost and excellent engine’s efficiency.

Friday, June 27, 2008

Wisdoms of the Ancient


What can we learn from Mencius, the great sage in last chaotic era in China???

· Those who ran fifty steps laughing at those who ran a hundred steps

* “The soldier who had run fifty steps laugh should not laugh at the soldier who had run a hundred steps. Although he did not run a hundred steps, yet he still running away after all.”

· Will not and cannot

* “What your ability cannot accomplish is what you can’t do; what your ability can accomplish but you do not do is what you won’t do. Men often say cannot when they will not.”

· Helping the shoots to grow

* “Everything under heaven is regulated. Those who have deliberately and artificially tried to assist growth will find that they have actually only hastened destruction.”

· The man who bends himself can never straighten others

* “The honourable man keeps his principles; he should never bend his principles to please others.”

· The un-regretful thief

* “If you know that what you’re doing is wrong, you should stop it right away; why wait till next year?”

· Self-examination

* “In interactions, you cannot just focus on what you expect from others; you must look at yourself to ensure that you have done all you can to be upright.”

· Our troubles

* “We bring upon ourselves happiness or calamity; and we must bear the consequences of our own sins.”

· The signs of times

* “Before things happen, there are signs. The superior man heeds these warnings, and plans and acts before trouble closes in.”

· A man can do great things when he can refuse to do certain things

* “A successful person knows clearly the path he must follow; he will not be tempted to deviate.”

· Knowledge

* “Those who know and sense things early, must not be selfish and make use of this advantage to pursue good only for themselves. They must go forth to instruct others.”

· Can he enlighten others when he is confused himself?

* “Only a leader who is enlightened in speech and action will be able to lead men. For if the leader is himself confused, can he make others understand or obey him? Wouldn’t he be like the blind trying to lead the blind?”

Fall From Five Failures

Once there was a businessman who always failed five times to make his business prosperous and blamed the world treated him unfairly. He always bore in his mind that failure is destructive and make no progress for him. He was so sad and saw no light in the end. Then he came to see his friend who was very wealthy and successful. Then he asked:


“Hey, what makes you sad and not energetic at all? You are totally different than before this. Would you tell me what happens?”


“My business always faces failure and never grows in progress. I feel so distressed right now.”

“You haven’t failed yet, but you just found your ways that won’t work. Failure is instructive. The person who really thinks learns quite as much from his failures as from his successes. Besides that, it is a mistake to suppose that men succeed through success; they much oftener succeed through failures.”


“So, you mean we will get very little wisdom from success, right? But I always think that why the world treated me unfairly, why not others?”

“We read the world wrong and say that it deceives us. Actually, you don’t notice that the world always breaks everyone down. In the end, only they will get stronger in the broken places.”


“Yes, you’re right. Why I never thought like that?! I should change my perspective towards the world. But I don’t have ideas anymore. I’m so blurred.”

“It is better to have enough ideas for some of them to be wrong, than to be always right by having no ideas at all. Try to recall what you have done before this. I’m sure that you have learned something from them. Many of life's failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.”


“I try to think over what you have said right now. Maybe I overlooked after all. I don’t notice the slightest opportunity in front of me when doing things. Anyway, thanks for your insights.”

“You’re welcome. Remember, there are two kinds of failures: those who thought and never did, and those who did and never thought. The lessons of life amount not to wisdom, but to scar tissue and callus.”

Visualization II

How to do it is simple: you need to close your eyes and see your dreams as already accomplish. If possible, you can add some sound effects into your picture. Imagine yourself that you have already succeed of becoming a millionaire, many reporters thronging towards you, interviewing you, asking you what makes you so successful, what is your secret of success and many more. The clicking sound of their cameras, the overflowed questions from the people and the praises you received from people around you, was it great if you can listen to these echoes of success in your ears?

You also can fire your pictures up with emotions. The emotions needed must be positive enough to get you stay with your dreams: enthusiastic, determined, confident, excited, and flexible. I have read a health article from the internet before this; it said that some psychologists suggest that visualizing plus emotions is fifty or sixty times as powerful as a real situation.

Here is a way that I can share to help you visualizing: use printed materials. For example, if your goal is to visit India, you can get a picture of Taj Mahal; if your goal is to become a millionaire, you can write yourself a mock paycheck and put into your wallet; if your goal is become a leader, you can use a picture of a leader you admired most to motivate you.

Visualization

Visualization is a great technique of imagination, which you can utilize to generate pictures in your mind. It is a method of giving your mind chances to imagine what you want in your life. Albert Eistein once said “imagination is everything. It is the preview of life’s coming attraction.” There are several reasons why you have to choose this method to accelerate your engine towards success:

  • · It stimulates creative powers of your subconscious mind.
  • · It focuses your brain to notice available resources that are always there but were previously unnoticed.
  • · It attracts you to people, resources and opportunities you need to accomplish your dream.
  • · It boosts your little confidence to a high level of self-believe.
  • · It initiates your mechanism of action rather than just having numerous plans that are not carried out to reality.
The process of visualizing for success can be done anywhere and anytime you want. For instance, you can use it each morning you wake up from bed, each time when you are relaxing, each night before you go to bed, etc. It only takes a few minutes, usually between 10 to 20 minutes, depending on how many goals you have. The more goals you have, the longer is the duration of visualization you have to practice. But I recommend you to visualize those goals that can give you the gratification you thirst for.

Within Greatness

Hope and chance

Desperately await us

To be realized

To be materialized

What can we do

We are masters and creators

Of our own fate

Of our own destiny

Potential and wealth within

Untold and folded

Coming to grips with fact

Within us exists the same power

Enable winners to be winners

Never too late to be

What we might have been

What lies behind us

What lies before us

Nothing but tiny particles

Compared to what lies within us

To change what is external

Is to change ourselves first

Be bold to blow our best out

Opportunity will unwrap itself

Look front and stay forward

YOU can do it, my friends...

The A.R.T of Goal Setting


A: ACHIEVABLE (GOALS SHOULD BE ATTAINABLE)

1) Knowing the limits of one’s strengths

  • Daydreams are elusive and they encourage us to think of aims that we do not have the ability or resources to achieve. Goals, on the other hand, are made after careful assessment of our ability to fulfill them.

2) Knowing the specific demands

  • Attainability can only be accessed if we truly understand the nature of the goal set.

3) Having determination

  • Determination is setting a goal and holding on until its completion. This means being mentally prepared for various obstacles along the way. For those pitfalls that we cannot envisage, our grit will help see us through.

4) Creativity in problem solving

  • When you are beset with difficulties, and there seems to be no way out, put on your thinking cap. Check out all other possibilities. A solution may well avail itself.

R: REVIEWED (REGULATE YOURSELF TO FOCUS ON THE GOAL)

1) Keeping distractions away

  • Count the cost of your endeavours before you begin. We must willing to sacrifice time, money or our desires to strive towards our target.

2) The problem of complacency

  • Those who are complacent get caught in a rut and indulge in self-satisfaction. They do not realize that their inactivity robs them of the chance to attain their full potential, to mature and to learn.

3) The problem of inconsistency

  • Like floating down a river, working towards a goal requires continuous effort if we do not want to risk being swept away by the raging torrents.

4) The problem of discouragement

  • When the label of failure threatens to stick itself to us, and discouragement tails our path, ward it off with perseverance. The eventual success will prove to be even sweeter.

T: TIMED (SEIZE THE DAY, LAY HOLD OF PROVIDENCE AND PRESS ON TOWARDS THE GOAL)

1) Pacing oneself

  • We should appoint a time for our goals to be accomplished – the hour, day, week, month or the year – to help us guard against procrastination. On the other hand, it also takes patience to make our goals a reality.

2) Opportunity

  • Seize the day! It is easy to forget that time and life is limited amidst the golden ray each sunrise floods us in. The reality is our lifespan and opportunities are all limited.

3) Perseverance

  • More often than not, we do not achieve our goals at the first attempt. Unless we decide to grit our teeth and press on, our aspiration will remain a figment of our imagination.

Mat Jenin - a dare dreamer, as well as doer!!!

Have you heard a Malay traditional story of a young man called Mat Jenin? If you’ve heard before this, then ask yourself what you can learn best from him. If you never heard of it, here’s the story goes…

Mat Jenin was a hardworking young man. Mat Jenin earned a living as a coconut picker. Everyday, Mat Jenin climbed up the coconut trees, chose the matured coconuts and dropped them on the ground. Later he gathered all the coconuts, counted them, and they paid him for the work he did for them with money or coconuts. He was also a big dreamer. He would be up to the coconut tree, dreaming about selling his coconuts and put the money away. He also dreamed about getting married with a nice, beautiful lady. In his thinking, when he had enough money he would buy himself a few acres of estate, so that he can realize his dream by having lots of money. Later, Mat Jenin worked harder, climbed more trees, picked more coconuts and get more money.

With the money he earned from his hard works, his sweat and toil was finally paid off. Now that he owned most of the coconut estates that he could hire somebody else to do the coconut-picking job. Every morning, he walked around his estates, looking at his vast coconut estates, feeling grateful and appreciating the fortune of his hard works. One day, he went to in the middle of his estate, climbed up a coconut tree, looking up into the sky and opened up both his arms. But just when he opened up his arms, he let go the coconut trunk he had been holding onto, he lost his balance and fell on the ground. Then, he was killed.

I loved Mat Jenin story except when he died at the end of the story. Many people say “don’t become like Mat Jenin.” But anyway, the beginning of his life story has a good impact on us, tells us to be dared to dream big and become a dreamer as well as doer. Have faith that you also can do the same thing just like what Mat Jenin did: Dared to Dream for a Better Life!